Friday, November 15, 2013

A Homeschooling Family's Day

Hello!  We're the Lane Family.  I'm Laura Lane.
My husband, Lowell, works at a church.  My eldest, Matthew, graduated in 2009.  He attended high school after being homeschooled for 10 years.  I currently homeschool Emily, 16, Michael, 14, and Amy, 12. 

We're rather relaxed, eclectic homeschoolers.  I didn't really plan it that way, but life happens when you have a husband who is in ministry.  There's a bit of drop everything and go when he calls to our life.  Two years ago, our area was devastated by what the world knows as the Joplin, Missouri tornado.  We live about ten miles from Joplin.  A couple of days after the tornado, my husband walked in and asked Pastor Dan what he could do to help.  He walked out with a job as the coordinator and community liaison and a plan to house volunteers in the vacant house next door (about 400 over the summer by his estimates).   Though we no longer have volunteers staying with us, the kids and I have been on call to volunteer for the last two years. ~smile~  Things have finally settled down giving us the chance to settle down into a new autumn school routine. 

This is what our school days look like if all goes according to plan. ~smile~

We try to get most of our work done in the morning.  The first child out of bed gets the first chance to do math.  All of the children use Teaching Textbooks, a computer based math program.  There's a bit of competition between my two youngest children to see who's first. ~smile~  We eat breakfast and two children do dishes while the third goes on to start Bible.  The others start Bible when they're done.  Math is done as the computer comes available.  We will work all morning, then hopefully, be able to do some more creative activities in the afternoon.  Of course, if the lessons aren't finished, they'll have to be finished.

We homeschool all over the house.  I want my children to be lifelong learners.  I think that allowing them a little flexibility in where they do their lessons makes them less resistant to learning.  I also catch them doing what I jokingly call "unauthorized learning" once in awhile.  You know, reading a book or studying even if it wasn't assigned.  I make a big deal out of it in jest. ~smile~

Much of our learning is reading based.   We read a lot of whole books.  I was attracted to Charlotte Mason's teachings but never followed her 100%.  We have used a combination of textbooks, workbooks, computer programs, videos and hands-on lessons over the years. We're still reading a lot for Science, but my older children are studying Biology this year.  History and Latin are video based.  Michael and Emily do history together.  All of the children learn Latin together.  I have to admit, Latin has been rather hit and miss this first semester.  Spelling, grammar and writing are usually a bit more mom intensive. ~smile~ 

To put it simply, God told us to.  I explain it all in detail in this post:  Why We Homeschool.

Helpful hints:
  • Pray!  God cares deeply for you and for your children.  He will guide you.
  • Read read read to your children from birth.  Keep reading even after they learn to read.
  • As soon as they can read, require them to sit and read/look at books for thirty minutes a day, perhaps after lunch.
  • When they graduate to chapter books, increase their silent reading time to an hour a day.  My children have become excellent readers as a result. 
  • Don't give up!  Your family is unique.  Your homeschool will be unique.  Don't try to do it just like someone else.  Pick and choose ideas and find what works for your family.

What I really want you to know:  You will not be perfect in your child training, your homeschooling, or your homemaking.  It's okay.  Pray, research the best methods for you, and be flexible in your implementation.  Teaching your child to love the Lord our God with all their hearts, minds, souls, and strength is ultimately the goal.  God wants that, too.  He'll help you.

Be blessed!

P.S  Favorite resource:  The Well Planned Day planner

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Laura Lane is mom to four children, ages 14-22.  She has homeschooled since 1996, is married to her high school sweetheart, and is debt-free.  She writes about homemaking, saving money through thrifty living, homeschooling, books, her family life, and her love of God and her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.  Find her at Harvest Lane Cottage.


  1. God bless you all in your efforts and I know He is faithful who has called you to do this!
    I am so full of admiration for your family.

  2. Thank you for your kind words, Christine.

  3. You have not given up home, family or anything else that God will not reward in eternity.....especially when it is his will and call upon you lives to live and serve Him! oh, what you must have experienced over the past few years. Thank you for your faithfulness to serve for the Lord...and homeschooling! That is one of my greatest regrets! I think it is one of the greatest privileges to teach your home.... and to do whatever God calls you to do! Blessings! Stop by and visit with me... we have much in common.

  4. Hello Laura! I almost didn't read this post because I do not have any school age, or college age for that matter, children. But I'm glad I did. Yours sounds like a wonderful family. We were fortunate to live in small towns with old fashioned ethics and most older children had wonderful educations, but I do regret not homeschooling my youngest, who has dyslexia and mild autism. But at the time we thought he needed to have the resources that school supplied. How wrong we were! Anyway, just wanted to say that I admire your walk with Christ. So sorry to hear about your MIL. Sounds like you two had a wonderful relationship.

  5. Hi Patty,
    You are so sweet to encourage me so. I'll be over for a visit soon.

  6. Hi Caroline,
    On a perfect day, it is.

  7. There is so much wisdom here, and you are such a shining example of what a Godly, Proverbs 31 woman/wife/mother looks like. So thankful to be walking this Christian journey with you, my friend. God bless you and your sweet family and your husband's ministry. I admire your outreach to the community. :)

  8. Thank you for sharing your homeschool day with us at Good Morning Mondays. I enjoy reading how other families do it and in some things we are similar. What a wonderful experience to help people in need and a great learning tool for your children. Blessings to you Laura and your lovely family. Xxx


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